Wow...I have not posted in 9 months. In that time, my biopsy was negative, my husband professed his love for me while home for vacation, we had holidays, and hubby came come April 29, 2011 for vacation. While he was running on April 30th and May 1st, he had chest pain as he has had numerous times in Kuwait. He attributed it to having a large pack on his back. When he told me that he had shortness of breath with the chest pain I INSISTED he call the doctor. Well,,,,long story short- he had a triple bypass on May 9th. I gave up all of my vacation time and almost all of my sick time to care for him. Nothing a loving wife wouldn't do. He was in the hospital 5 times after that with major complications,,,while I stood by his side. On July 8th I came home to a 2 page letter that explained he could not stay in a relationship with me because we had problems and so in essence....Good Luck. I have subsequently found out that "MR. I am such a wonderful Christian" has been carrying on an affair with a woman from the Florida Keys for quite a while and he left me to go to the Motel on 75th street to meet with her this weekend. He left me the letter and CLEARED OUT OUR BANK ACCOUNTS FOR THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS and left me with nothing else. If you came to our house you would not know he ever lived here- the removal of his things was that complete. I also found out he charged ten's of thousands of dollars on charge cards. I can only hope that God meters out the JUSTICE that he so richly deserves. So after probably saving his life, giving up 5 weeks of my PTO....this dog dumps me. "The wheels of God grind slowly, but exceedingly fine.." I hope to live to see it.